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Today we made the decision we have gone as far as we can go together. So I called the Realtor and the bank and a lawyer. He is mentally and emotionally abusive and won't go to counceling or get any kind or help or see that he is even 50% to blame for our marriage ending. He has never followed thru on his word to get help or change in the 20 years we have been togehter, but yet I keep hoping he will say he loves me and doesn't want to loose me and will do whatever it takess. Why am I so stupid to still hope there is a chance?
I feel your pain and unluckily and on the same end as you are. Everything was going fine (or so I thought). My wife told me Monday that she wants a divorce. I still love her with all of my heart and we have been through so much together. I just do not understand. I have literally cried for 5 days and have gotten about 11 hours of sleep in that time. I am so sorry to hear this from you. I feel like she is killing me from the inside out. I gave her everything. I just can't understand right now. We have 2 great boys together and we just went out and had a great time last weekend and 2 weekends ago and then she threw this bomb on me on Monday night. I honestly don't know where to turn.
I went through my first divorce a few years ago and I was on the same page. I felt broken and confused. I began writing about it. Maybe my blog will help you. Here is the link. http://virginiamilitarydivorce.blogspot.com/
I am sorry both of you are going thru the same thing. I guess love is a funny thing and will crush you in the end. I hope you both are making out ok and will be fine in the end
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